Solution:
try this code
add_action('wp_login_failed', 'my_front_end_login_fail');
function my_front_end_login_fail($username){
// Get the reffering page, where did the post submission come from?
$referrer = $_SERVER['HTTP_REFERER'];
// if there's a valid referrer, and it's not the default log-in screen
if(!empty($referrer) && !strstr($referrer,'wp-login') && !strstr($referrer,'wp-admin')){
// let's append some information (login=failed) to the URL for the theme to use
////already not login failed append
if(!strstr($referrer,'&login=failed'))
{
wp_redirect($referrer . '&login=failed');
}
else
{
////if alreday append go to same url
wp_redirect($referrer);
}
exit;
}
}